hari-hari terakhir 2006

Minggu ni terasa amat relaks. Traffic clear, office-wise agak relaks...despite ramai yg cuti dan calls yg byk, hidup terasa tenang kat ofis. Mungkin sebab exam baru abis, assignment dah siap, klas dah abis, jadinya minda lebih tenang dan dpt function spt biasa....kalo idak duk jam-packed dgn hafal-menghafal dan proses menginput segala fakta dr buku teks hoho. Exam susah, 4x ganda susah berbanding OB dulu, tapi bak kata prof, kamu tulis je ape saja asal jgn tinggal kosong...so that's what i did! Betul tak betul itu belakang kira, janji kat kertas ada tulisan :p Janji pass udahler!
Abis exam pukul 1pm, dgn gembiranye drive balik rumah...sampai kat sg besi tayar belakang pancit. Tersgtla haru, park la keta tepi highway, call pruzz, tunggu dekat 40 min dgn perut yg lapar banget, setitik air pon tak teguk lagi dr awal pagi tadi. Kesabaran terduga, tp aku cuba buang masa sambil bersms ngan kawan hehe. Hilang stress :)

Camner nak ilangkan stress? aku baru balik dr course stress mgmt last week, so ade la a few tips yg boleh diguna bersama:

- tarik nafas, pejam mata, cuba relaks dlm 5 min, kosongkan minda...ala-ala meditate la nih
- minum air kosong byk2
- berfikir dulu before ckp, gunakan minda, jgn guna hati/emotions...nanti binasa
- prioritize, applykan segala basic time mgmt skill yg pernah kita blajar dolu2..mane yg tak penting, tinggalkan dulu, yg paling penting, dont strive to be a perfectionist..
- we cant never live in a stress-free environment. Maknanye stress tu mmg necessary, inevitable, common...lari camner pon hidup sure akan face dgn stress
- 70% source of stress are from outside work - maknanye dr rumah, environment, social, etc....ni study done by previous researchers. tapi mungkin org2 tertentu spt doktor, or Aini disagree with this hehe
- the very basic thing utk handle stress, kenalilah source of stress anda/stressors. Bila tahu ape sebabnye, maka insya allah kita boleh come out with coping strategy utk handle stress tu.
- antara kesan2 stress adalah physical health - migraine, gastrik, heart attack, high BP, etc...yg paling haru, boleh membawa kpd kematian


ok sekian lecture dari saya utk kali ni....kalau tak faham bley tanye. Tapi serius ckp course tu mmg best, i can see the practicality on most of the applications touched by the speaker. Byk kena tepat kat batang hidung sendiri :p

Ckp pasal rumah, kami target nak pindah on mid jan 07. Skang tgh bz basuh dan sental umah and packing barang slowly, slowly dan tidak mempressurekan diri nanti stress haha. Rumah kami macam tongkang pecah, penuh dgn kotak2...kat dlm bilik, kat ruang bwh...sakit mata bila tgk. Baju ngan buku dah settle, so tinggal lagi 70% kot kena packing...aku paling cuak nak redah store tu, takut benda2 yg tak diingini muncul huhu takutts. Lipas kuar dr kotak pon aku dah menjerit rasa cam nak luruh jantung, apetah lagi kalo cik ti ke ape ke yg muncul dr store tu...aduss lomah semangat. Umah baru tu byk lagi belum settle, kc cuma boleh dipasang awal jan, ruang bwh belum basuh, cat belum lagi...banyak lagi kerja yg tak settle.....tapi takper jgn stress ok tak baik utk kesihatan :)

Ok itu je update terbaru buat masa ini...selamat bercuti kpd yg bercuti, selamat bekerja kpd yg dah habis cuti and tak boleh cuti...dan selamat menyambut tahun baru 2007, umur semakin meningkat, maka sentiasalah beringat kpd-Nya. Semoga hidup akan lebih bermakna dan bersinar pd tahun baru nih :)))

double joy

Tima kasih TM..jasamu dikenang!!!

double joy

Tima kasih TM..jasamu dikenang!!!

yang ke-3

Kitorang sama-sama budak Feb intake. Kenal rapat thru telnet. Abis kelas laju je pegi lab masuk telnet...sehari ntah beberapa kali chatting. Kesimpulannye telnet la yg merapatkan kami. Id dia 91000077, id aku 91000092. Habis feb intake, dia masuk management, aku masuk accounting (konon nak jadi professional accountant :p), so kitorang dah tak sama klas dah. Tapi org kata, muka kitorang ade kat mana-mana...foodcourt, library, court badminton, etc (malu la plak bila pk hehe). Dari feb intake, masuk ke first year, dan seterusnye, dari melaka pindah ke cyber...tup tup sampai ke final year. Orang panggil aku yatipruzz...yela ramai yati lain kat mmu tu, so utk differentiate kan aku..tu la gelarannya. Ramai panggil kitorang pasangan serasi la, secocok la, couple scorer la (alhamdulillah), pasangan feb intake paling lama la...memacam lagi. Kat mmu, kitorang mkn bersama, blajar sesama, main ping pong sesama, at the same time bersaing utk score. Kadang aku menang, kadang dia menang...tapi overall cgpa dia menang (tak aci tak aci). Nak sedapkan hati aku, aku cakap tapela..course dia senang (ampun yang :p). So habis blajar, dia decide nak jadi tutor. Aku plak nak merasa keje dlm corporate world, so again terpisah lagi. Dia tutor kat melaka, aku kat menara tekom. 8 september 2002, kitorang bertunang. Alhamdulillah tak byk onak dan duri time tunang ni...mungkin sbb faktor distance kot. In fact lagi byk bergaduh time blajar dulu hehe. Setahun 3 bulan bertunang, tanggal 13 Disember 2003 kami selamat jadi pasangan suami isteri. 10 Disember 2004 kami selamat bergelar mama dan abah kepada si kecik comel tuh! Dan hari ni, genap 3 tahun kami duduk sebumbung, mkn bersama, tgk tv sesama, basuh be*** idlan sesama, gilir bgn bancuh susu tgh mlm, etc. Pahit, manis, masam muka, merajuk, bergaduh...semua tu mmg asam garam dlm hidup kami. Tapi syukur kami masih bersama, syukur kerana kebahagiaan masih berpihak kepada kami. Ditambahkan dgn kehadiran idlan dlm hidup ini, mmg meriah dan bahagia.

Kepada B, Happy Anniversary yg ke-3 to u! Tima kasih kerana menjadi suami terbaik, abah terbaik, dan kawan terbaik sepanjang tempoh perkenalan kita. Segala pengorbanan awak akan kite kenang sampai ke akhir hayat, segala jasa awak amat kite hargai. Semoga kebahagiaan akan terus menemani kita berdua sampai bila-bila.

Sayang awak muahss!

what we did on his birthday

Saturday morning we treat him breakfast at uncle ronalds, and as expected idlan mmg syiok abis bila pegi mc d. The whole day was spent at ikea, merely went there to return some items and ends up we took something else back home. Night time, initially planned to dine out at kenny's, tp idlan buat perangai, last skali tapau jer. Tapau skali cheese cake la boheme, for the sake of taking pics sbb actual celebration plan nak buat lambat lagi since esok nek umi takder , tapi malangyer idlan tak suke pon cake tuh :p Balik umah amik gambar action potong kek, tp muka dia pandang ke tv, potong kek takde perasaan! Last skali mama and abah je balun kek tu hehe

10th- mulanye plan nak duk umah jer, since semlm dah one whole day berjln, konon abah nak setelkan lecture notes dia. Tapi bila bgn pagi, lepas kiss idlan wish dia & nyanyikan dia lagu birthday, tgk mood dia happy semacam je, rasa tak sampai hati plak kalau takde buat pepe. Last2 abah suarakan hasrat pegi sunway lagoon, mama ape lagi on jer! So pepagi kol 8 lebey dah kuar rumah, bwk sausage sandwich bekalan breakfast. Idlan dari dlm umah, dlm keta, sampaila ke sunway lagoon tak lepas pegang pelampung spiderman dia..sayang abis kat pelampung dia! Mandi manda dlm pool 2 jam lebey, takmo kuar langsung, break minum susu pon dia takmo...heppy abis dia dpt main air. Yg bahaya nyer, dia takmo duk sgt dlm pelampung, instead dia insist nk berjln dlm air..sampai air ke paras leher dia still berani lagi. Kitorang yg risau sbb byk kali dia jatuh muka tersembam dlm air. After 2 jam kitorang dah penat, diajak balik dia takmo...last skali terpaksa tipu dia ajak beli eskrem ngan coklat..barula dia willing nak kuar dr pool. Time tu dah pukul 12 lebey, panas sesgt, matahari tegak atas kepala. Dlm keta on the way back idlan tumbang kepenatan. Mujur mlm tu tak demam or sesema...check telinga pon ok...risau takut dia demam rendam lama dlm air. So itula hadiah besday idlan taun ni, a few weeks back dah beli basikal utk dia, tp dia tak suke..sabor jela. Celebration mkn2 mama plan nak buat on 24th...after mama abis xm. Oh yer, besday idlan sama ngan besday tok belah kedah..to mak, Happy Birthday to u too!

p/s: Kpd sue, congrats for the new born baby girl! lengkap dah sepasang eh!

an advance birthday wish

Dear Idlan,

Two days ahead marks your second birthday. Three days after that will be mama and abah’s 3rd anniversary. With you around, mama and abah feel blessed; you make us complete. You were borned thru c-sect, thus mama didn’t have the chance to feel any pain prior your arrival. Nevertheless, mama’s confinement period was challenged, you refused to breastfeed, you woke up more than 3x on average, you hardly sleep after awake, and the most tiring part, mama had to wake up in advance, doing the pumping jobs at least 3x a night. Thank God mama had abah with me, so together the both of us went thru the sleepless night without fail. Despite the tiring, we knew the experience is irreplaceable. We grow to become a knowledgeable parent, and yes we were quite a fast learner :)

Time past very fast, and now you’ve become a big boy to mama and abah. You had once attacked with pneumonia when you were about 8 m-o. You have eczema and still not completely recovered from it. But don’t worry, mama and abah will continuously find ways to overcome it. Nevertheless, you grow up well and that already makes us satisfied.

Now that you can speak, you never fail to amuse us with your funny phrases and words, your superhero actions, your body language and many more. And mama has noticed, you were so over-protected on your mama don’t you? You will scold abah when abah does something to mama; abah pinched mama and you pinch him back. Oh I just love you! Hope you can protect your adik, hope you will take care the both of us when we get older.

Mama has to stop now. Since our house still not wired, and your birthday falls on Sunday, let mama wish u an advance Happy 2nd Birthday to my beloved Muhammad Idlan Farhan. Both mama and abah will always pray for your happiness, good health, good life, and most importantly, you must grow as a knowledgeable person, lead your life with Islam as your basis in whatever things you do. Semoga menjadi anak yang soleh, berjaya di dunia dan akhirat kelak.

Love always,
Mama

(nanti mama paksa abah buat another entry dedication for u ok!)

mama.......the bz bee

Things are getting pretty frenzied, but im still coping. 24hr a day seems shorter than before, but im still grateful i get enough sleep every night. Most importantly, i sometimes do feel like a superwoman, running here and there, doing this and that, and still everything falls back to its place, intact (ade nada perasan sket hehehe).

My normal days are tight with office work and assignments. Weekends are jam-packed with classes, survey things for our new house, making appointments with ppl, etc. Like last sunday, from morning till afternoon i was in class, rushing back home to perform solat and had lunch, then took the two men of the house out for a few appointments, went to kamdar to get curtains, and our last destination was tesco, for dinner. Despite the clock ticked 10 already, we noticed idlan are all energized, no sign of sleepy whatsoever. I know he was happy, happy for we brought him out to shopping complex, happy for he had time to spent with the both of us (.......and happy dpt mkn chicken rice, his ferevet :p). Back home, i was flat already, but satisfied. Satisfied for being able to accomplish so many things in a day. Sbb tu perasan superwoman haha

Exam is nearer, assignments are 60% done, cuma buku je tak penah bukak baca lagi huhuhu.

Idlan will turn two y-o in 3 days. Im glad he is healthy, his appetite shows great improvement, his feveret are no doubt mushroom soup with garlic bread and chicken rice, he doesnt like ice cream, he eats choc but not so often, he weighs more than 12kg i think, and the outstanding one, he can pronounce his name already!

"ni Iyan punyer, ni topi Iyan, chair Iyan"...etc. Even tho ade pelat sket but still im proud of him.

and the most funny part......he now says

"mama...mama...jom JJ!" .......repeatedly.

if i asked him, where are we going? definitely his answer is JJ! looks like he's a big fan of JJ (lucky our new house dekat ngan JJ baru tuh :p) He can even spot the JJ signboard from distance...nampak gaya mama n abah dah salah ajaran.
Kesimpulannya, semua shopping complex jadi JJ, be it tesco ke ikea ke ape sajelah JJ je yg ade dlm kamus dia.

Hobi dia, lari laju kiri kanan dlm shopping complex & turun naik escalator...mmg mencabar keimanan kami berdua.

Still obsess with mr incredibles, he watches the movie 4-5x on average per day.

On another story, finally we've placed confirmation for grill and kc. The wiring men are doing their works now, and soon few other person will start doing the concrete top. We targeted to move before end of jan, hope that will materialize and the 'busy'ness that i have now will ceased slowly.

oh i just love my life......:)